(from the forthcoming book “Dove Notes”)
For a woman, a comment can almost be akin to foreplay. Women appreciate feedback. They appreciate it more if they don’t have to prompt you first. If she’s lost weight… comment. If she has changed her hair color or length… comment. If she has achieved a goal or any other accomplishment, no matter how trivial it may seem to you… comment.
These observations convey to her how important she is to you. It establishes her value in a way that she will always remember and can often refer to. Also, this gives her bragging rights with her friends, and if you don’t know… this is very beneficial for you. Trust me.